Unconditional Love, is what we are. We are created and born out of Love, to love and BE the Love that we are. Love is not an emotion, but the highest vibrational energy that we are made of. So, if we ARE Love, there is no “falling in love” or “lost in love” or “loosing at love”. Those are all tricks of the mind, simple mind-games played on and by yourself.
When you connect with someone, you want to enjoy them; to get to know them and spend time with them. You want to share Unconditional Love with them. To do this, you must sincerely feel no expectations and an unconditional caring for the other. As long as you keep your heart open and allow it to remain there in that space, the bond that you will create, will always be there. However, if you attempt to control the other become possessive, the bond will be broken.
This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet. They try to posses it, they demand, they expect and Love will retreat from you. Unconditional love is to be free. You cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be the free beings that they are. Give and don’t expect. Advise, but don’t order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love.