Alexis and Bars

Who wants to have more Love, Joy, Peace, Harmony and Happiness in their life right now? Have your Bars run! It’s as simple and easy as that! When was the last time you allowed yourself to be nice to yourself, to do something for your own inner well-being? Take responsibility for your own life now and have The Bars run.  Watch the transformation begin! You are so worth it. The Bars process can help in all areas of your life with immediate effects and there are unlimited possibilities! From your physical health, emotional well-being, relationships, success and financial state, The Bars touch on all aspects of your life.  Just as the name states, it does help you to access higher realms of consciousness which will enable you to function from a different perspective and with more awareness.  It will also help (just to name a few) with lowering High Blood Pressure, Bipolar, Depression, Negativity, Memory, Sleeping disorders, Self-Sabotage, Judgments, Aging, Communication, Peace and Calm,  and any other limiting belief that we collect along the way.  You will feel differences immediately after receiving the process as well as a good nights sleep.  At the least, you will feel like you just had a great massage.  At the most, it will change your life!

This is easy, this is light, this is right! Make the right choice now and remember, not to decide – IS to decide! Contact me and let’s see what infinite opportunities and possibilities we can open up together for you and watch your life change. The time is now, as this present moment is all we ever have, all that will ever be.

It only takes a minimum of two people to hold a class and I can work with you regarding your schedule and/or location. So grab a friend or relative, spouse lover or other and learn how to do The Bars in a 1 day class so you can run them on each other! See what magic and miracles show up for you after you do! If you are a Licensed Massage Therapist (LMT), the one day class will provide you with CE credits as well as offering you a new process to perform on your existing and future clients!  Yes, only one day to be Certified to provide the process. Full sessions and mini (half) sessions are always available, so please contact me direct for next available appointment. All Bars classes offered are not always shown on the schedule, so please do inquire. 




There is no such thing as peace of mind


Peace of mind is basically impossible. Peace happens only when mind is not. It is not peace of mind; it is peace beyond mind.

Mind is muddy; all kinds of relevant and irrelevant thoughts are jumbled there. It is a crowd, with so many fragments fighting with each other that you can call it a battleground. Mind cannot be at peace. But you can go beyond mind because you are not the mind. You can transcend and then there is peace, there is beauty, there is bliss, and all that you have always dreamt about but have had no experience of…

The watcher is always above the mind. The watcher is never part of the mind.

The mind is just like a TV screen on which thoughts, dreams, imaginations, projections, desires, and a thousand and one things go on passing. The watcher is not on the screen, he is sitting in the movie hall. But the problem arises when the watcher becomes identified with something on the movie screen…

It is your identification with thoughts that is creating the confusion: it brings you down into the mind; otherwise your watcher is far above it. And to get centered in your watching is the only way for peace.

There is no such thing as “peace of mind”.

Venu Pillai


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Is your life filled with stress?  Anxiety?  Fear?  Pain?  Dis-ease?  Do you wonder what you could do to change this?  Running The Bars is a tool from Access Consciousness.  I have studied and become a Certified Bars Facilitator.  What does that mean?  I know that this might be a long explanation, but it is thorough and worth reading for the information.  Towards the end, you will find the specifics for appointments.  Please read as it may help you or someone you love!  There is no age limit to either receiving The Bars run on yourself or in learning to run The Bars for others!  How does it get any better than that!

There are 32 bars of energy that run through and around your head that connect to different aspects of your life. We call all of the points we touch when using this modality “The Bars.”

The Bars store the electromagnetic component of all the thoughts, ideas, attitudes, decisions and beliefs that you have ever had about anything.  For example:  every thought you have ever had about money that you considered important, the energy of that thought is stored in The Bar called “money.”  There are Bars for healing, body, control, awareness, creativity, power, aging, sex and money, 32 different ones in all. Each Bar corresponds with that aspect or area of your life that it is named.

Touch one Bar and you begin to clear away the energy locked up in that area or aspect of your life just by touching it. Add in touching another Bar and you not only get the “issues” from the first Bar, you also begin clearing the “issues” stored in the second Bar as well as you clear all the points of view about those two Bars in relation to each other, allowing for exponential change.  Just by gently touching the Bars you effectively erase everything you have ever stored there. Just five minutes can erase 5,000 to 10,000 years of stored points of view.

What is the value of erasing this bank of data you have stored all this lifetime, and every lifetime?  When you are functioning from preconceived points of view about what is possible in life, what is not possible in life, and have it rigidly defined of how the world works, you cannot be aware of anything that does not match that.  Each thought, idea, attitude, decision or belief that you have fixed in place solidifies the energy and limits your capacity to change anything in that area. You change the energy, you change how that part of your life shows up. What is the most simple and easy way to change energy? Get your Bars touched! When you do, something different can show up in your life with ease.

At worst, you feel like you have just had the best massage of your life!  At best, your whole life can change into something greater with total ease. This is an incredibly nurturing and relaxing process, undoing limitations in all aspects of your life without any effort.

I invite you to experience this in the form of a “short” or “mini” session.  This way you will know what it can do for your life, which in turn will affect everyone in your life and the planet!  Call and make time for yourself! When was the last time you did something nice and beneficial for yourself?  For in being yourself, in taking care of yourself, everyone around you benefits!  Full sessions are usually an hour but they could go longer.  Usually the length of time on the first session for adults would be approximately 60-90 minutes. Young Adults, Teens and grade-school ages, would not run longer than a mini session in general of 30 minutes. The introductory pricing for Adults – Full Sessions will go up in October.  Packages are also available.  Please contact me direct for cost and further details. I promise, you will feel relaxed afterwards. And who knows after that, what great things will show up and start happening in your life?  Less stress, no anxiety, pains disappearing, money showing up?

I look forward to sharing this amazing process with you and being a part of your transforming life!  Please do forward this email to your friends and family as I know, once they hear and see of your life changes, they will want to know more about The Bars.

“All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory!”

HEALTH: Depression is a Blessing


Whenever you are depressed, wait for the moment that the depression goes. Nothing lasts forever; the depression will go. And when it leaves you, wait – be aware and alert – because after the depression, after the night, there will be a dawn and the sun will rise. If you can be alert in that moment. you will he happy that you were depressed. You will be grateful that you are depressed because only through your depression was this mint of happiness possible.

But what do we do? We move in an infinite regression We get depressed. Then we get depressed because of the depression: a second depression follows. If you are depressed. that′s okay! – nothing is wrong in it. It is beautiful because through it you will learn and mature. But then you feel badly. “Why do I get depressed? I should not get depressed.” Then you start fighting with the depression. The first depression is good, but the second depression is unreal. And this unreal depression will cloud your mind. You will miss the moment that would have followed the real depression.

When depressed, be depressed. Simply be depressed. Don′t get depressed about your depression. Don′t fight it, don′t create any diversion, don′t force it to go. Just allow it to happen; it will go by itself. Life is a flux; nothing remains the same. You are not needed; the river moves by itself, you don′t have to push it. If you are trying to push it, its simply foolish. The river flows by itself. Allow it to flow.

When depression is there, allow it to be. Don′t get depressed about it. If you want to remove it sooner, you will get depressed. If you fight it, you will create a secondary depression that is dangerous. The first depression is beautiful, it is natural. The second depression is your own. It is fabricated. Then you will move in mental grooves. They are infinite.

If you get depressed, be happy that you are depressed and allow the depression to be. Then suddenly the depression will disappear and there will be a breakthrough. No clouds will be there and the sky will be clear. For a single moment, heaven opens for you. If you are not depressed about your depression you can contact, you can commune, you can enter this heavenly gate. And once you know it, you have learned one of the ultimate laws of life: that life uses the opposite as a teacher, as a back-ground.


AYURVEDA: Massage Ayurveda/Tantra


Ayurvedic Tantra massage is a of massage using Ayurvedic oil which helps the sexual energy to achieve a higher state of consciousness. Skilled Tantra Massage Therapists, especially Tantric Yogis, use specific sensual touches such as lightly running fingertips along the entire body to awaken a dormant energy field within the body. When awakened, this energy field is believed to unite lovers in an ecstatic experience and to get rid of/from physical and mental trauma. Tantric Massage is the best medicine for those who suffer from depression. This, is a very ancient healing art form from the mysterious land of India.

Tantra Massage sets out to unwrinkle blocked energy throughout the body and awaken the Kundalini, a mythological energy that lies in rest at the base of the spine. When the Kundalini rises from its restful state, it spreads out along the spine and precipitates healing throughout the body.

The goal of the Tantra Massage Therapist is to awaken the seven Chakras, or energy centers, along the spine of the body in an effort to nudge the sleeping Kundalini from its rest. The Tantric Massage begins with a relaxation massage and moves along into centralized Chakra energy building techniques, then accelerates into personalized Kundalini arousal techniques.

Sexual arousal is a major emotional impact of Tantra Massage. Like other forms of massage, Tantra Massage can be very relaxing. Tantra Massage can also alleviate physical pain and emotional fear and guilt. Tantra Massage will help the people to become more fulfilled and personally empowered.


OSHO: Happiness


Happiness, is your nature. This relaxation is the space in which happiness grows.  It is not that you are happy because of something. You are simply happy. Happiness is your nature.

Don’t choose, but Accept life as it is, in its totality. You must look at the total: life and death together, love and hate together, happiness/unhappiness together, agony/ecstasy together. If you look at them together, then what is there to choose? If you see they are one, then from where can choice enter? How to choose? The choice drops.

The difference between happiness and bliss: Your ‘happiness’ is caused. Sometimes a friend has come and you are happy. How long are you going to be happy with the friend? A few moments — and then you will be happy when he leaves. What type of happiness is this? It is caused, and the cause disappears. Bliss is a happiness uncaused. Simply as you are, you are happy. There is nothing to say about why you are happy.

Seek the witnessing within you, just look: Happiness, unhappiness, sadness, joy, they come and go, they are beggars around you. The witnessing remains at the very center, uncaused, unchanging, one. Seek that within you and then everything becomes clear. When you are clear within, everything is transparent. The truth is everywhere around you, only you have to become one with.

Happiness needs no cause. It is your simple nature, you are intrinsically happy. No cause, no purpose, no goal is needed. Life is in itself enough. It needs nothing else to complete it. It is complete in It’s entirity! It is already what it has to be. So there is no purpose in existence and no goal in existence. Existence is a sheer dance.

 A healthy psychology is not ambitious You are happy as you are, so there is no need for you to become a president of the country. Then will you be happy? No president is happy, because happiness has nothing to do with your post, with your money, with your power. It has something to do with your inner change, inner transformation.

Every action has its intrinsic reward or punishment.  So a man of intelligence soon starts finding what are the acts which bring you happiness, joy, blissfulness, and what are the actions which create misery, and suffering. There is no need to wait for the last judgment day, there is no need to wait until after death as you will be thrown into either hell or to heaven. Each moment completes itself.

The simple secret of happiness in whatever you are doing: Don’t let ‘past’ move your mind. Don’t let the ‘future’ disturb you. Because, the past is no more and the future is not yet. To live in the memories, to live in the imagination, is to live in the non-existential. And when you are living in the non-existential, you are missing that which is existential. Naturally you will be miserable, because you will miss your whole life.

Happiness is a byproduct. Happiness happens when truth is achieved. But if you are seeking happiness you cannot achieve truth, because happiness is a byproduct; You cannot achieve it directly, there is no way to it — it comes via truth. If you reach the truth, happiness will happen; it is a shadow, it comes with the truth. But if you seek happiness only, then happiness is not possible and truth is missed.

Be happy when alone. Let happiness be your quality. And when you move from aloneness in to involvement, into communication, relationship, carry that quality of happiness which was in loneliness — carry that.

Happiness is an art. It is a way of life.  Ask for Happiness and you will never get it. There is only one way to be happy, and that is to be happy here, now.  Happiness is not a result. It is a way of life. Happiness is not the end result of desire. It is an attitude, not a desire. You can be happy here and now if you know how to be, but you will never be happy if you don’t know how to be and you go on desiring it.

Happiness is happening all around you Allow it to enter within. Be part of existence. In fact, it has already happened but you are not aware of it. Then you will be fulfilled. Non-ambitious, you will be fulfilled. Don’t move into the future. Existence never moves into the future; only mind does. This is what I call meditation: to be here, to not move into the future. And then you will be deathless and eternal life will have happened to you.

Be – don’t try to become. Within these two words – being and becoming, your whole life is contained. Being is enlightenment, becoming is ignorance.”

Venu Pillai